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Dr Ritu Verma

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Finding the Right Bilingual Therapist in Hong Kong: A Guide to Bilingual Therapy Hong Kong
When it comes to mental health, finding the right support can make all the difference. In a vibrant, multicultural city like Hong Kong, language and cultural understanding play a crucial role in therapy. That’s why bilingual therapy Hong Kong is becoming increasingly important. Whether you are a child, teenager, adult, elderly person, couple, or family, having a therapist who speaks your language and understands your culture can create a more comfortable and effective healin
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Kindness: an inherent trait or learned behavior?
Psychologists, social scientists, and other researchers often say it’s a bit of both. Not only do we naturally tend to be kind, but we also have the wonderful ability to nurture and grow our kindness over the course of our lives. Although humans are innately predisposed to empathy and cooperation, kindness is additionally a skill that is cultivated, enhanced, and perfected through experience. “Throughout my childhood, I observed my father's benevolent acts of kindness. He wou
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What is Purging in Eating Disorder?
“I'm 21 years old now, and I've struggled with my weight and self-esteem since junior high. As a typical, awkward preteen, I was chubby, wore braces, and had acne. I was self-conscious about everything, especially my weight. As I entered high school, my concern about my body grew stronger. Then one day, I looked at myself in the mirror, still not entirely sure what I was doing. Then I pulled my hair back into a ponytail, knelt over the toilet, and made myself sick. I wish, wi
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Understanding ADHD Evaluation for Adults in Hong Kong
Living with undiagnosed ADHD can be challenging, especially for adults who may have struggled with symptoms for years without understanding why. If you find yourself often distracted, forgetful, or restless, you might wonder if ADHD is the cause. Fortunately, getting a proper ADHD evaluation for adults in Hong Kong is possible, and it can open doors to better management and support. What Is ADHD and Why Adult Evaluation Matters ADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorde
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Kindness Matters: for Mental health, Connection, and Physical wellness.
“Ramesh lovingly provides blankets for those in need each winter. At the beginning of the season, he thoughtfully spends time with his children, visiting the local market to buy 50 blankets. Together, they head to the neighborhoods where less fortunate people reside, generously sharing these blankets to bring warmth and comfort to them.” “Every Sunday, Luca lovingly brings food to two hungry souls in his cozy town, spreading warmth and compassion. Sometimes he treats them to
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Kindness is Good for us
Every winter, Ram distributes blankets to homeless people shivering on the streets. Every Friday, George happily feeds 10 people in need, sharing kindness and support in a wonderful way. Henns happily compliments 1-2 classmates each day, spreading positivity and making everyone feel appreciated. Chris is always there for his friends when they need help with studying maths. While driving, Austin happily gives lifts to people heading to the office, making their commute a little
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Clients say: Purpose gives Meaning to our Life
“I am 31 years old and have come to understand that life fundamentally reflects one's own choices. If your goal is to lose weight, pursue it. If you aim to improve your drawing skills, practice diligently. If you desire to acquire a new vehicle, save diligently. Life presents ease when circumstances permit and presents challenges when they do not. There is ample time, and every stride taken is distinct and beautiful. Learning a new skill is possible at any age, whether six or
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Staying Purposeful: Building the Muscle
Can you develop a sense of purpose, or are you born with one? Having a purposeful mindset isn't something you're born with; it's developed through the cultivation of skills, habits, and perspectives over time with mindful effort. Embracing this attitude means moving from simply reacting to life to taking a proactive stance, where your actions truly reflect your core values. Developing a purposeful mindset is a journey, not a destination. Take Proactive Action (Create, Don't
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Big-P vs Small-p Purpose
“Rabia had spent years caring for and supporting her big family. Her three daughters went to college, and her husband retired. Rabia left her job as a university English professor and devoted herself to something she had always loved: writing stories for small children. She weaved stories around life skills for children. Each day, in her busy condominium, Rabia would write. She would publish one story every day on her own chosen online platform. Her favorite moment came each
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Purpose: flow and sustained effort
“I was going through a tough time in my life, a divorce after 15 years of marriage. Every day seemed very tough to pass; a tumultuous time to manage the emotions of 2 children, my parents, job, etc. Bleak days, except the days that I spent doing something purposeful. Focusing on the job felt tough; I was losing my sense of purpose in life. except during process-oriented, daily activities that bring joy and fulfillment. I built on them, and they helped me go through this tum
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A Cultivitable Skill
“Gratitude is an affirmation of the goodness in one’s life and the recognition that the sources of this goodness lie at least partially outside the self.” This definition, advocated by prominent gratitude researcher Dr. Robert Emmons, describes gratitude as a cognitive-emotional process that shifts a person's perspective on life Gratitude is the recognition that life owes me nothing and all the good I have is a gift. So it is foundationally and fundamentally a way of looking
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4 A's of Gratitude
The word 'gratitude' has Latin origins, deriving from Medieval Latin 'gratitudo' (thankfulness) and Latin 'gratus' (thankful, pleasing). It entered English in the mid-15th century, initially meaning "goodwill" before evolving to its current sense of thankfulness in the 1560s. The idea of gratitude was integral to ancient civilizations. Religions such as Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, and Hinduism all emphasize developing gratitude as a key moral virtue. This feeling
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Gratitude is an Exercise in Learning to see Life differently
The Universal Gratitude Symbol is a central spiral with three dots and a hook. It incorporates several elements: A central spiral: This element, tied to ancient Celtic symbolism, represents rebirth, the circle of life, personal growth, and accepting life's constant changes. Three dots: Positioned at the lower exterior of the spiral, these symbolize the idea of "taking further thought or action" (like an ellipsis) and an "infinite list" of things to be grateful for. A hook (M
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365 Days of Good Brain Habits: A Gratitude Jar
Good brain habits improve cognitive functions. Certain small habits can gradually enhance your organization and reduce chaos. On Monday, Paula wrote. “I believe it is my responsibility to assist others. I contribute to community initiatives. The small acts of kindness my father performed have fostered a similar enthusiasm within me. I am grateful to my father for demonstrating helpful behavior as a role model.” She folded the paper and put it in a jar, naming it a gratitude j
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Anxiety, stress and depression
Definitions: Stress refers to any demand on your mind or body. Situations or events that cause frustration or nervousness can activate it. Anxiety is a sensation of fear, worry, or discomfort. It can arise in response to stress, but sometimes it occurs without any clear cause. Depression is a persistent low mood, impacting thoughts, feelings, and behavior, often arising from a combination of biological, psychological, and environmental influences. While stress is usually a sh
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Helping your Teen with Eating Disorder
“It is of great importance to recognize that my family and friends comprehend the challenges I face. Receiving assistance at an early stage is essential. It was my mother and father, through their patience, acceptance, and unwavering support, who facilitated access to the necessary help for me early on, thereby saving my life.” Paul, a 15-year-old. He is a teen battling an eating disorder As per the Wo
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What is weekend depression?
It is Friday evening, Saturday midday, or Sunday morning, and you started to feel: - Sad, low mood - Low self-esteem - Emptiness - Fatigue - Changes in appetite or sleep - Irritability, anger outbursts - Difficulty making decisions, remembering things. You are not the only one to feel like this. These days, we hear more about people feeling sad and lonely on the weekends. Weekdays are spent in mode of doing, task to task, finishing ch
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Small Donations a Day may Keep Depression Away
“I grew up seeing my father engaging wholeheartedly in small acts of kindness every day. He will keep a pot of water and glasses outside his home for passersby, will donate something to a street beggar before entering the restaurant, buy food for a needy passerby looking at us eating food, give away a few coins to street beggars, give extra coins to a balloon seller, sponsor a child at school, and much more. These acts of small donations and helping others seemed to help him.
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Knitting Gains Popularity with Generation Z
The above ran as a headline in BBC News recently. “Small habits and small goals help keep us mindful. These small goals, such as knitting for an hour a day to make a scarf, painting for 30 minutes a day to create a piece, stitching to make a table mat, and running for 30 minutes to train for a marathon, are all achievable. These goals are low planning, no competition, and have a sense of achievement. They relieve stress and anxiety.”
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Yes!! You can support a family member with ASD at home.
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental condition marked by varying difficulties in social interaction, communication, and the presence of restricted interests or repetitive behaviors. It may also include impairments in areas such as intelligence, language, and sensory processing. Overall, ASD encompasses a broad spectrum of symptoms and challenges that children and adults face in their daily lives. The syndrome can significantly affect parent-child relationsh
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